SIGNS HE LOVES YOU (Even if He’s Not Saying It)


Remaining in a “friend-zone” with a guy you are obviously in love with is like….. emmmm well words cannot entire describe that feeling so “It is complicated”. Below are some signs he loves you, even if he is not saying it. I will deal with some of the reasons he is probably not saying he loves you when he actually does in a future post.

After a long period of friendship with a guy , you might be eager to drop the highly anticipated L-bomb yourself.

When you’re head-over-heels in love with someone, you want to scream it from the rooftops, for goodness sakes! That’s why it can be pretty frustrating to keep waiting when the guy is reluctant to express his feelings of love toward you, no matter how strong your feelings are for him. In fact, you might not even know if he loves you at all!

On the other hand, he has probably said “I love you” more than you can count and you just cannot seem to match his words with his actions.

Just because he isn’t saying those three little words doesn’t mean that his love for you isn’t there. There could be plenty of signs that he loves you just as much as you love him – you just might not be noticing them!

After all, actions speak louder than words, right?

How Can You Tell if He Loves You?

Even if he hasn’t expressed his love for you verbally, there could be plenty of nonverbal signs that he’s totally in love with you. If you’re on the lookout for clues that he’s in L-O-V-E with you, watch out for one of these signs!

Sign #1: He makes you a priority


Do I have to explain this?;  people hardly even give priority to their own lives so when you become an important part of his day-to-day life, that’s a pretty good sign that he’s feeling some love for you. Taking time out of each day to catch up with you, planning weekly dates and being attentive to your needs are all signs that you’re becoming a priority in his life.

“I know you never want to be that guy that blows off his friends, but when I started dating my girlfriend, I noticed that I didn’t mind ditching ‘guy time’ to hang out with her. When you love a girl, you make sure you have time to see her no matter what; it’s just what you do!” Cameron

When he makes time in his busy schedule with work, friends, school and sports just to make sure he can see you, that’s a good sign that you’re a real priority in his life.


Sign #2: He talks to you about the future


When you think about the future, you always factor in the people you love, so when a guy brings up the future to you, there’s a good chance that you’re one of those loved ones!

" there’s a definite possibility that he loves you if he “talks to you about the future using the words ‘we’ or ‘us’ instead of ‘I’ or ‘me,’ sometimes without even realizing it.” Christopher

Even if the future plans are just hypothetical, it’s still a big sign that he imagines you being in his life for a long time.

“My boyfriend took SO long to tell me that he loved me, i was getting really frustrated because we had been dating for several months, but one day he told me that he was thinking about places that we could move to in the future and I was kind of taken aback. When I realized he was factoring me into his future plans, it made me feel a lot better. Even though he hadn’t said it yet, I knew he loved me—he just needed some time!” Hannah


Sign #3: He keeps you close

Unspoken displays of affection can be a big indicator that a guy has some pretty strong feelings for you – mainly, his body language when you two are out together in public.
Christopher says there’s a good chance he loves you if “he keeps you close, walks next to you and has no hesitation to show a public display of affection (i.e., holding your hands, placing his hand around your neck e.t.c). All this not only lets you know he’s into you, but also lets others know he’s not available.”
When a guy loves you, he wants everyone to know that you’re his girl, which is why these subtle displays of affection can hold a lot of meaning!


Sign #4: He actively listens to you talk about your day


Any guy can pretend to listen about your day, but when a guy loves you he’ll actually listen. Why? Because he wants to!
If he loves you, he’ll want to know about how your day was and how he can make it better. He’ll be there for support when you’re having a pretty crappy day or happy for you when you got good news to share. If you notice he’s really engaged when you’re telling him personal stories or he asks a lot of pertinent questions, it’s a good sign that he’s heading towards those feelings of love.

“When you love someone, you want to know about their day because you actually care,it also makes you want to open up to them more, too, and share personal stories about yourself. I tell my girlfriend things I wouldn’t be able to tell my guy friends or my siblings because I know she cares and I feel comfortable telling her.” Patrick

Talking to you about his day may also be a sign that he loves you. When he shares personal stories with you and values your input, it says a lot about his feelings for you.


Sign #5: You meet his family

Meeting the family is a big deal, so when he takes you home or introduces you to his parents, don’t take it lightly! Most guys wouldn’t introduce any girl to their relatives unless they were really serious about them.


“I would never let a girl meet all my relatives unless I knew I loved her and saw a future with her, if you bring a girl home to meet your whole family, they all usually assume it’s pretty serious. I know my relatives still ask me about my ex-girlfriend ALL the time because I brought her to one of my family reunions a few years ago. It’s not worth it to just bring any girl home; she’s got to be special.” Stanley


Sign #6: He says your name in a really cool way


Oh yea, there is just that way he calls you that he doesn't call anyone else, and you feel it in the tune and pitch. Saying your name in various interesting ways is a good sign he is really in love with you.
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I believe love is a beautiful thing and everyone deserves to love and be loved. The contents of this blog is aimed at helping people become the right person so that they can find the right person. Enjoy!
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